So Your Kids Are Trying Out for the Softball Team
Making the team can be a very difficult physical and emotional challenge for youth softball players.
· Reassure your kids that no matter the outcome, they have your support
· Emphasize that they can’t control the outcome but can control their effort and attitude
· Remind them to focus on their own effort and not on what others are doing
· Be Coachable. Parents, remind your kids that coaches look for athletes who have the potential to improve (aka “coachable” players). They may make mistakes in tryouts, but how they handle them is even more important. How can kids deal positively with mistakes?
· Keep It Active and Fun. Coaches can organize tryouts so athletes are constantly in motion, instead of standing around and watching other players perform, which can make them nervous. Creating a fun environment can elicit stronger performances from kids.
· Disappointment Is OK. Parents, help kids cope with disappointment by reminding them that it’s OK to be disappointed. Empathize with them; don’t say the tryout wasn’t important. Instead, consider sharing a story about when you overcame disappointment. Or try a “You’re the Kind Of Person” statement. What’s a “You’re the Kind Of Person” statement?
· Check Your Emotions. Having parents who get upset or angry or want to challenge a coach’s decision about tryouts just puts added pressure on kids.
· Honest Feedback. Coaches, one of the best things you can do is give kids honest feedback about their tryouts, including areas where they can improve. Then encourage them to try out next year. This gives them direction. How do you give kids honest, “kid-friendly" criticism?
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